CHEMO TOTE BAG Every chemo day starts by packing a bag of goodies to pass the time in the Infusion Center. The Circus of Cancer Infusion Essentials tote has a check list printed right on it to remind your friend to bring the doctor's orders, her insurance card, her knitting needles and all the patience she can muster.  See tote.

COORDINATE MEAL DROP OFFS During chemo, many people may want to bring your friend meals. It is a truly wonderful gift to have a point person schedule the meals so there is no overlap. [There are easy ways to do this online, like Yahoo! Groups.]

DROP OFF A MEAL If you don’t cook, send over a pizza or some take out. If you like to cook, organic food is best. Nutrionists recommend free-range chicken, broccoli, and fruits. Red meat, fortified grains and leafy greens are also great sources of iron to help with chemo-related anemia. Send meals over in disposable dishes so your friend doesn’t need to sort out tupperware returns later on.

GROCERIES Dry mouth is a common side effect of chemo, so moist soft foods like yogurt and custards, juicy fruits like oranges and sugar free gum are handy to have around. Also, staples for the whole family help keep the fridge stocked for everyone.

HOUSE CLEANING Join forces with other friends to pay for additional house cleaning. Try to schedule the cleaning while your friend is in chemo, so they come to home to clean house and fresh bed.

LOTIONS AND BATH BUBBLES Chemo can make your friend’s skin dry and itchy, so a moisturizing bath and some good body lotion can really help. Some lotions include aromatherapy and extra ingredients for joint and muscle aches, which are common chemo side effects.

KNITTING SUPPLIES Many women with breast cancer knit away in the chemo chair. Look for pattern books for small projects, like hats or children’s scarves.

VISITS TO CHEMO This is a labor of love. Even stopping by for a few minutes can be such a nice break from the monotony of chemo. Bring a magazine or a carbonated water for her husband or partner.

LUCKY CHARMS Jade for healing, Shamrocks for luck, Pink stones for breast cancer, Angels for strength. Your friend might like to keep a charm in their “chemo bag” or their pocket while they get treatment.

JEWELRY Earrings might make your friend feel more feminine while she is bald. Bracelets and necklaces can be a great reminder of all the people who support her.

LIPSTICK Without hair, your friend might feel a little less lovely. A new lipstick might perk her up as she combs through her headgear looking for the right hat or scarf for the day.